Single Ladies…This is the one you don’t want to miss!!!

Hi friends!

A few weeks ago, I decided to unveil my upcoming book “How to Get Him to Put That Ring on Your Finger in 365 Days Or Less!” which will be released in a few weeks.

I am so excited by the interest that this book is generating. I receive emails daily, from women readers asking “When is it coming out?” or “Can I get an advanced copy?” One lady even said she would gladly pay for a copy of my manuscript because she needs help NOW! (lol)

Every woman has a uniqueness that’s all her own. In this book, I teach you how to use your God given ability to get that special man to put that ring on your finger in 365 days or less!

This book was inspired by you, my readers who sent countless emails and letters asking for advice on how to convince your man to commit to marriage.  And before you start thinking that this book is all about sex, it’s not.
A smart woman knows that sex alone will not make a man want to marry you.  I don’t care how good it is! (lol)

Most any woman can find a man who will have sex with her, but the real test is, will he marry you? After applying the principles in my book, he will!

But don’t take my word for it . . .

“A few years ago,  I was having problems with my boyfriend. He was giving me the hot and cold treatment. One day he was into me, (literally) then I wouldn’t hear from him for weeks. I decided to move to the coast to get away from him and see if it would make him recognize his true feelings for me. I thought it was working because he would call me and ask me to come see him on my days off. I was weak for him, so I had no problem making  the 3 ½ hour drive back home just to be with him. But when I got there he’d tell me that we would have to get together later because he’d already made other plans with his buddies. I would spend the remainder of my weekend with my folks.

Glenda and I worked together, and I told her about my problems after one of my disappointing visits. She told me exactly what to do, and  how to do it. I was prepared to write my boyfriend off because I was so sure her advice was never going to have any effect on him.  However, within the next three weeks he was making the 3 ½ hour drive to come see me. We celebrated our one year wedding anniversary this past February! 

Glenda knows what she’s talking about”  . . . Danielle

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 When I gave Danielle this advice three years ago, I had yet to begin writing my book. I spoke what I knew and practiced every day in my own relationships. I didn’t give her any crazy ideas or complicated theories.
Danielle is just one of many women who have experienced success in getting her man to put that ring on her finger, by using the principles taught in my book.
My principles will work for any woman.  Even YOU! 
Thanks Danielle!

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The Wedding’s Off! Should she be allowed to keep to ring?

There have been so many interesting stories in the news lately about engaged couples breaking up and suing over the return of the engagement ring.

There is a lot of talk about what is and what’s not “proper” when the engagement or pending nuptial is called off.

Most people consider engagement rings conditional gifts and the census is that it should be returned if the nuptial doesn’t take place. However, some people feel that it depends on the circumstances surrounding the breakup.

Of course, having been married five times and proposed to a total of eighteen times, this topic got me to thinking…

What is the right thing to do when the pending marriage is called off? Should a woman return the ring?

Even with my numerous marriage proposals, I’ve never had an issue with returning the ring simply because I’ve never accepted a ring from a man I didn’t intend to marry, but I do recall an incident about nine years ago where I accepted a ring from a man with the intent to marry him but before the event took place, I called the wedding off. 

 I didn’t return the ring because I felt that he had committed fraud so he didn’t deserve the ring back. The ring cost $4,800.00, I know because a few weeks prior to him proposing, he took me to the jeweler just to get my opinion on whether or not I liked it. After he proposed he encouraged me to rent out my home and move in with him since we were making preparations to merge our finances.

However, six weeks after he proposed I found out totally by accident that three weeks after he proposed to me he went and filed bankruptcy without informing me. I was livid, and not only called off the engagement, I broke it off with him.

When he asked for the ring back, I replied “Hell no! Just consider whatever I get from selling it, my first months rent and security deposit on my new place!”

I was upset because I had just recently rented out my home and couldn’t break their lease. I ended up taking the ring back to the jeweler who sold it to him and the jeweler gave me $2,400.00 for it. (½ of the original price that my ex-fiancee paid for it)

The point is, incidents such as this are happening every day. Many women are making major lifestyle changes based on building a future with her potential husband-to-be. Oftentimes, leaving great paying jobs and relocating to be with him based off building a future together. It appears that most of the time it is the woman who makes sacrifices in order to accommodate her future husband.

How many people look at the engagement ring as a binding contract?

When major purchases are made such as expensive jewelry, it comes with the agreement that it can be returned to the store within an allotted amount of time for a full refund. If a man proposes and the woman doesn’t accept, he’s not out of anything, he can return the ring to the store and get his money back.

But what happens if the woman accepts and incurs financial expenses from planning the pending nuptial?

Anyone who’s ever planned a wedding knows that wedding’s are expensive. If the man later breaks that engagement (by intent or by actions) should she be allowed to keep the ring to try and recoup some of those expenses? Or should she give the ring back?

 Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think?

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How to Get the Man “You” Want to Marry You!

  Sounds too good to be true? Well it’s not! There is a misconception that men naturally resist commitment. This is so untrue. I have never met a man who wouldn’t commit, yet I receive emails daily from women asking for advice on how to convince their man to commit.

 I get very different reactions from men and women when I tell them I have been married five times and I’ve also had 18 marriage proposals.
Most men are intrigued; they want to know what it is about me that made five men want to make me their wife. Women are curious; they want to know what did I do, and how I did it, in order to get five men to make a commitment to marriage.

I often hear from women who say, “I can’t get one man to marry me, and you’ve had five! Is there something wrong with me? Is there something I’m not doing right?”

Just because you’re not married and have never been proposed to, doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you. You may not be aware of what men are looking for when selecting a wife. Half the time, men don’t know what they are looking for in a wife until it’s staring them in the face.

The truth is, most men are not commitment phobic. Fact is, a man will commit when he finds what he’s looking for. He may be with you, but may not want a life long commitment with you. Whereas, he may break up with you and marry the next woman he gets involved with.

I didn’t get five husbands and 18 marriage proposals because I’m cute . . . in fact, I’m quite ordinary in the look’s department.

The men that I’ve been in relationships with usually start discussing marriage within the first three months, without me ever bringing up the subject, dropping hints, or leaving wedding planner guides on the coffee table.

My friends always asked me, “how was I doing it?” Getting a man to commit was never easy for some of them until they used the principles in my book (I Need Therapy) to change their way of thinking. Now most of them are happily married as well!

The key to getting a man to want to make you his wife is quite simple. You must be the woman he wants to marry. You must possess those qualities that he’s looking to find in a wife.

He needs to feel that by getting married to you his life will ultimately improve. Therefore, you need to provide a benefit for him that he wouldn’t have without you.

So, if you’re looking for commitment or marriage, you must be the woman he’s looking for, and you do this by simply working on you. This does not mean to change who you are, and become someone you’re not, but if what you’re doing is not working, then try something different!

In order for a man to see the good in you, someone he’d want to make his wife and share the rest of his life with, you must first see it in yourself. Men are attracted to confident, sexy women. When you love yourself, it shows in everything that you do.

There are several key elements that a man looks for in a wife, (they are all outlined in detail in my book) but the most important thing that will almost always guarantee a husband, is to make your man feel like the man, which for them is the greatest feeling in the world . . . to be recognized and appreciated for who they are, MEN!

You have to know what he wants and needs, and sometimes in order to achieve the results you want, you have to make him feel as if it was his idea.

HAPPY HUNTING LADIES! (Lol)

Chapter excerpt ~ How to Get the Man You Want to Marry You, taken from ~ I Need Therapy

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